Q: How do I find love for toxic people?
Aa: We will say that even the people that you are seeing as the most toxic, their core is one of love. Yes?
When they are in your experience, they have come forth, with you, to help you expand, to help you grow. They come forth from this space, this core of love, even when you do not recognize that. From the physical experience it appears to be toxic to you. We will say to you that when you have so firmly, firmly created them in your experience as being toxic, yes? …as being unlovable…yes? …essentially, the thought of them can bring you uncomfortable, even painful feelings, yes? And we would say that this is a co-creation with them…yes?..and at their core they are love…yes?… and they are here for the love of you, to help expand you.
We will invite you to begin focusing with great love on those in your experience that are easy to love…yes? We would invite you to notice the people around you, especially those who light you up with a spark of appreciation, who light you up with fun, with delight for being in their presence. Notice them, even if they are a stranger to you.
Begin to notice those people who you appreciate – Whether you appreciation the way that they look or the way that they interact with the world around them, the way that they are sharing love with you… Begin to notice and make lists. Make Creation Lists. What we wish for you to do is to make creation lists of that which you love and appreciate in people – any people, any beings.
We would extend this beyond people. Any beings, however you experience these beings, where you find yourself feeling appreciation, love and delight – Notice it. Make notes of it. Make lists of it. You can make diagrams of it …yes?
And in so doing you are activating that energy in your experience. Once you have activated it, it will be much more easy for you to recognize where this same vibration is leaking out through those who seem toxic to you… yes? It may not be flowing out fully, but you may begin to notice it leaking out here and there. “Oh! Here…wait! Look! There is something that I feel love for. There is something that I appreciate about them.”
But we would invite you to create it. You are Creating! Creating like a Frankenstein of Love! Yes?
You are bringing together all of these pieces that you appreciate and you love about the other beings around you. You are making note of it, you are making diagrams of it. You are piecing it together into a great Frankenstein of Love that will begin to appear for you everywhere. Yes? It will begin to show up in your experience all over the place. More and more beings to love and appreciate will show up for you.
We will say, that we wish for you to include yourself in this creation process. Notice those things that you love and appreciate about yourself. Appreciate where you have gotten yourself to from where you have been. How wonderful that is! That you have moved to where you now Be! Yes? From where you once were. What a great thing that is!
And put all of these pieces together and spark life into this Frankenstein of Love that will begin showing up for you everywhere, and you will begin to notice ‘that which is lovable,’ leaking out from those that you consider most toxic, because it will be the primary vibration in your experience. It will be what you are noticing. You will not be able to notice that toxicity for all of the love that you are noticing.
So…this is your job, this is your assignment: To become a great noticer and focuser of what you appreciate, love, and delight in, in those beings around you.
Do you wish to accept this challenge? ~ Aaron (One Who Is Plural)
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