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We want you to know that painful situations are CHOSEN, are Chosen for their power, for the resulting benefit, for what can be gained for moving through that.

She is not a lesser soul that you need to worry about. We know that having allowed yourself to be placed in the role of her mother, this was a great lesson for you also.
You can stay with love, dear one.
You can stay with love instead of worry.
You can stay with the knowing of her magnificence and the perfection of her choosing her path in physical. ~Solarum, One Who Is Plural

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re: interactions with young adult daughter

We say to you: We invite you to quit judging her. Yes?

And we invite you, because you are judging in a way that you are … you are perceiving it as love, yes?, but we would say that it is more judgment. It is more a feeling of ‘you knowing what’s better for her’. What we want you to know is what’s better for you.

We would say that you are recognizing this as you are feeling how it does not feel good when you find yourself in that situation, so you are recognizing that does not feel good to you. But you are still having the misconstrued ideas of motherly love, and that you know better. But what we invite you to do is to turn some of that for yourself, yes? Allow YOU to be your primary focus, yes? What is better for you? … Think of this.

Now we want you to love and care for yourself.
You DO know best what is best for you.
You have your guidance system and you do know what is best.
You are not the guidance system for your young one.
And in allowing yourself to recognize that she has her own guidance system, mmmm, things will begin to change for you in your relationship here. And this will require some releasing on your part, yes? Because you have held it for so long in the other way, that you must take care of her, yes? And we invite you to realize that YOU ARE CALLED TO LOVE HER. But loving her does not consist of judgment; it does not consist of worry. That is not love.

And so, we would invite you to hone your loving skills upon yourself, yes?, to tune into your guidance system. …
Love the little one within you, dear. ~Solarum

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