Relationship help

What we will say to you is that your perception plays a very big role in this, yes – plays a bigger role than the other person does for you. Yes.

And so, what we are going to invite you to do is to allow yourself to play with making lists, making notes of what it is that you do appreciate about your partner, and what it is that you have appreciated about your partner… so that you are going to begin to look for, look for even the smallest things, yes, and we also want you to be playing with what it is that lights you up and what it is that makes you feel fun and light hearted and enjoying things.

We would say for you to begin to recognize and appreciate also in those around you, what it is you appreciate about them, yes. And so, you are going to notice what it is that lights you up about all the people that you come into contact with, the people that you are in relationship with in some way, or people that you just see out and about.

Yes, allow yourself to make note of and to be appreciative of what it is about them that lights you up.

We invite you to allow yourself to appreciate other males, to appreciate the relationships that others have, yes, to appreciate any other people that catch your attention and light you up. But, yes, the appreciation of other relationships is very powerful for you to create a similar relationship in your own life.

We can say to you, that as you come in closer and closer contact with the vibration that makes you feel the best, yes – and you can do this through the appreciation of others – when you come in close resonance with that type of relationship that is the type of relationship that will be unfolding your life.

We will say to you, that there need not be concern about what will happen with your current relationship because, if possible, your current relationship will raise to the vibration of the relationship that you most desire, and if that is not desired through your partner, there can be an easy movement of you into the relationship that you most desire when you find resonance with the appreciation of it, yes.

You do not need to hold yourself bound, because we will say to you that relationships are created and we will say that they are made note of in your blueprints, yes and when you are in relationship with one whose blueprint matches yours in the playing out of things, they can change to fit your vibration when your vibration is strong enough – but, when your vibration is focused on what they are not or what is lacking currently, well you’re going to feel a whole lot more of that, yes.

But, when you are in resonance of what’s possible, when you notice all of the beautiful loving relationships out there, when you pay attention to the little details and when you make note of this… Play with it, yes.

And we will say that appreciation and play, oh, those will create anything for you. Yes, yes!

And we will say, that with the love that you emanate and you vibrate, when you are focused more on that and what feels good, yes, you will get much more of that dear one. You have a very strong vibration there, yes. ~Solarum, One Who Is Plural

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Are you waiting for signs?

**In response to a questioner who “waits for signs”**

You don’t need to wait for someone else to tell you what’s going to show up in your life.
What are you ready for?
What do you want to feel?
What do you want to experience?
What do you see was missing from the meal you’ve already been eating?
Order it up!! ~Solarum

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Each Perceiver experiences their own Creation

Each perceiver experiences their own creation.
And certainly, you play together, you co-create, you uphold one another’s visions at times, but even in those co-creations, that upholding of the other’s visions, that cultural experience that groups may have together – STILL, each individual has their own perception.
They come from their own unique vantage point.
Honor your vantage point.
Allow yourself to feel love for others in their vantage point. It may not be of your choosing but it may be a blessing for their growth, it may be a part of their expansion.
It may be a part of the expansion they are creating in this experience.
We will say that the desires of a soul are very often not easy to understand from a physical vantage point.
There is always love.
There is always love at the core. ~Solarum

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So much more is possible

We say to you: there is no reason for you to hold yourself back from the life you wish to lead.
There is no reason for you to hold yourself back from the life you wish to lead.

Play more with recognizing the life you wish to lead, rather than recognizing the life you ARE leading.
Play more with recognizing the life you wish to lead, rather than recognizing the life you currently lead.

So much more is possible, dear one. So much more is possible. ~Solarum, One Who Is Plural

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We are here to play with you

And so, today we are here to play with you. Yes?
We are here to expand things for you, in the ways that you seek, in the ways that you wish, in the ways that you are moving, for you are moving into what you desire more fully, and we acknowledge you for that.
And so, how would you like to play today, dear one? ~Solarum

I am excited that I get to share Solarum with an international group on Skype today!
If you are interested in playing with Solarum, you can find opportunities on this page.
~Stephanie Udana

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Playful nature

Things show up more quickly when they are of a playful nature.
~Aaron (One Who Is Plural)

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Time and Focus Multiply

Make note of your desires. Allow yourself time and focus for the different areas of your life that deserve time and focus – and then watch the time and focus in your life multiply, dear one.
It is all coming together. It is all coming together. ~Aaron (One Who Is Plural)

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Good stuff showing up for others?

Seeing Evidence of the good stuff that you would like showing up for other people??

Aaron (One Who Is Plural): If it is showing up in your experience where you can see it and you can perceive it – You can create it.

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I can have whatever I want.

And we are going to give you something to play with because you are using the words, “I can have whatever I want” and you can, but what you are going to get is whatever you are vibrating and whatever you are resonant with.

That is a distinction that can be very important in your experience because it is a major distinction between “getting what you want” and if you are actually resonating with what you want. Because you can have desires and wants that you are not resonating with, and until you are resonating with them, they cannot come into your experience.

What we want you to do – and we have spoken about this before – but you are to look for evidence. You are to look for evidence of how it IS SHOWING UP in your life no matter how small. And we invite you to still stay in this big expansive “Yes. This is the vision of what I want.” And we want you to notice where you are already experiencing it.

We want you to know the small bits, the little details where you are already experiencing it, rather than holding yourself apart from it saying, “That is where I want to go.” We want you to recognize the places and the instances where you are Already There, so that it becomes not so much a “wanting” of this but, as you were saying before, “Of course, I’ve already done that.”

“Of course, I’ve already done that.” When you are in that vibration of “of course, I’ve already done that” then, of course, you’ve already done that. You are already there. But you can do that by noticing the small instances, the evidence of where you have created in your life, where your life is in resonance with the life you are creating, (the life) you are envisioning.

Begin to notice the evidence. And you can notice the evidence in others too. You can find out about their stories – people who are living the life that you wish. Find out. What is the evidence? How did they get there? What did they do to get there?

But notice the evidence, of what you have already created in your life. Play that up. Become resonant with the knowing of yourself as a Creator. And you are doing this. And you are doing this. But it is the distinction that we wish to point out to you that it is different from WANTING something.

YOU WILL NOT ALWAYS BRING TO YOU WHAT YOU WANT UNLESS YOU FIND RESONANCE WITH IT.

And we will say that the vibration of appreciation is resonant with everything you want. So when you feel appreciation for ANYTHING in your life, when you feel appreciation for anything in your life you are bringing yourself into resonance with what you want.
~Aaron (One Who Is Plural)

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Expanding into more

You are constantly expanding into more.
You are gathering information and knowing and allowing and asking for possibilities to light up in brighter ways for you. You are journeying and you are seeking out that which your soul desires and it is all working out perfectly.
You are moving forward. You are moving forward much more rapidly than you recognize. ~Aaron

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